Feb

16

Life Lessons My Garden Taught Me

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P1011313It snowed today – a lot! The storm picked up momentum as the day went on. I found myself drawn to the window often. I couldn’t see the garden. I know there is life there – under the thick blanket of snow. The garden has already started preparing for its showy comeback. We are getting close now.

Gardening is one of the ways I express myself creatively. I grew up watching my grandfather growing roses, tending grapes and fruit trees. In the summer, he used to wake me up early in the morning to go pick up figs for breakfast. At noon, the children used to lie down, in the shade of this huge fig tree that was in our back yard, and nap, while our mothers would sit nearby and gossip or knit – finding respite from the heat.

Why am I telling you all this? Well, my mind works in mysterious ways and I’ve learned not to fight it. I believe that everything has its place in this earth school of ours. Everything we experience finds its proper use in our life’s journey.

As I began daydreaming about my garden and spring in the middle of this cold, snow covered day, I couldn’t help but think of all the lessons my garden has taught me. Here is some of what I’ve learned:

  • Take time to plan before you dig – it will save you a lot of time, energy, and disappointment;
  • Design the garden that pleases you;
  • Let the garden show you what it needs – stay flexible;
  • Don’t worry about getting your hands dirty;
  • Keep up with the weeds or they’ll take over your garden;
  • Take your cues from the flowers themselves – if something refuses to thrive – let it go;
  • Don’t be afraid to try something new;
  • Learn from your mistakes;
  • Above all, a garden is meant to be shared and enjoyed – There is always time to stop and smell the roses!

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